The secret to a happy life you ask?
Ah, yes, I have one of the answers.
I come from a family of beautiful whistlers—my mom (a song bird!), her dad, me, and my oldest son. My mom taught me to whistle when I was a wee girl and I remember the immense pride I felt when I finally got it! And I’ve been whistling pretty much non-stop every since (apologies to my non-whistling family and friends!).
My house frequently resonates with my son’s and my high vibratos—he or I will start a song from one end of the house and pretty soon the other one, wherever they are, jumps in to harmonize or complete the tune.
I whistle when I’m happy and I find that when I whistle, I get happy.
And when I hear my kids whistle, my heart glows as I’m reassured that they’re feeling happy and carefree. Love the whistling I hear from the shower!
I couldn’t find science addressing the health benefits of whistling to justify my beliefs about it, but I’m quite sure it would be astounding! Perhaps like the science of singing—which boasts deep changes in the brain and beautiful transformations of mood, cognition, stress levels, and how one views the world.
But there’s something special about whistling (and whistlers!). Those pure tones. The trills. The simplicity. The improvisations. The harmonies. The lack of words. And, it’s the language of birds!
We can use our voices to make us happy in a reverse-mind-engineering sort of way. You know, how when we use happy behavior to create the emotion—like smiling, holding our heads high, skipping, playing with our pets or children, or power poses.
I find whistling works every time.
So, we can take to heart the advice of the great twentieth century teacher, Snow White, who urged the Seven Dwarfs to whistle while they work:
Just whistle while you work
And cheerfully together we can tidy up the place
So hum a merry tune
It won’t take long when there’s a song to help you set the pace
And as you sweep the room
Imagine that the broom
Is someone that you love
And soon you’ll find you’re dancing to the tune.
When hearts are high the time will fly
So whistle while you work.
So whistle while you work…
And have a happy, Beautiful day!
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